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JimmyG2

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In response to a recent thread about the release of a further 1500 season tickets leading to a lack of tickets for general sale I found myself responding to the joy of some of the new season ticket holders with the words 'I envy you'.This led me to think about whether I really did, and the relationship of attenders at matches to those who, like me, support from afar. Is there a hierarchy of fans?

I have not been in a position to be a White Hart Lane regular since leaving London in my late teens, a very long time ago now, to go 'up North' never to return to live or work.

However since the advent of the Internet and Sky it is possible to watch nearly every game although sometimes on unreliable streams. Last season I missed completely only the Man. City match and that was due to a Grandson's birthday party. So given the cost, the travel problems, the time involved how much have I actually missed?

If I were a season ticket holder I would probably assert the superiority of the live match experience over the TV or internet version. Apart from the camaraderie, the atmosphere, the 'craic', there is certainly the advantage of seeing the whole scene: you look where you want, get a wider angle and choose your own picture.

There must be a feeling that having endured all the downsides in order to support the team you are a true fan. But the downsides, apart from the time, trouble, and cost have to be put into the equation too.

I like to watch and form my own opinion with the added advantage of immediate slow motion replay. I usually watch Sky with the sound turned down and the internet commentary is normally unintelligible to me in any case. I have attended enough live games to know that even one's mates can be a distraction from actually watching what happens as opposed to seeing only what you want to see or confirming your existing opinions. Its usually the biggest idiot with the loudest voice who dominates. 'Empty vessels' and all that.

The great Jenas debate is a case in point. If loud-mouth and his mates behind you groan and jeer only when JJ gives the ball away and ignore it when Modric does this can colour your reaction to both the game and to the individuals concerned. This applies to other crowd favourites and fall guys. Do Robbie and Ledley ever have a bad game or Darren and Roman a good one? They do if you watch in a neutral setting.

I don't go to football matches to sing, to chant, to stand up if I hate Arsenal, to abuse ex-players or even current players but to watch the game and reflect on what I have seen. I find everything else a distraction. You may think that having spent your several thousands of pounds per season supporting Spurs then you have the right to do and say what you like, even booing the team off at half time if they have played poorly.

However you don't. This conflict was highlighted by the Sol Cambell saga which resulted in several Spur's fans being prosecuted and showed in an extreme example the limits. Moreover you are the representatives of the possibly hundreds of thousands of Spur's fans who would perhaps like to be there but cannot for a variety of reasons: poverty, distance, laziness, work, age, decrepitude and the simple fact that there is a waiting list.

You are also the public face of Tottenham's fans and have responsibilities in this regard. Our reputation especially in broadcast matches or with journalists present is in your hands. You may not see it as a privilege to be a season ticket holder, after all you pay heavily for it, but to us 'outsiders' it certainly is. All these considerations are outside the actual game and to me a diversion.

Sometimes there is an implied criticism of us external fans for not being there and therefore having less right to comment. I reject the 'Were you even there?' approach. In my view not being there has some advantages in terms of purely appraising the football and forming your own opinion.

There is probably a hierarchy of fans within the ground. I detect sometimes in the threads a sense of superiority from certain parts of the ground: the real fans as opposed to the poseurs and hangers on over there. You would know this better than me and I look forward to your guidance on this.

We outsiders may be seen as the bottom of the pile. But I come in peace brothers and I do envy in some ways these new season ticket holders. There seems to be two different experiences here: the matchday jamboree and looking critically at the game. Obviously it must be possible to do both but in my view its harder if you're actually there.

I acknowledge the important role of the actual White Hart Lane crowd in creating an atmosphere for the team to play in and we have a good reputation in this matter. But there is a downside to this too in that unlike say Liverpool we are not behind the team come rain or shine. We easily turn to criticism, hence our 'fickle' reputation .Again you will know better than me if this is justified.

So I am prepared to argue the advantages that I see in not being there. But then I would, wouldn't I?
 

camaj

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Interesting, Jimmy. It's clear you've thought about it, which is more than can be said of others. I expect to be a season ticket holder next season but one thing I can say is I've never felt those who are at games are somehow superior to "armchair supporters". The only measurement should be how much you care about the team and there's nothing to say a fan at home cares any less than a ST holder.

I do question whether it's worth bothering going to a match when you can watch at home with the advantages that offers. It can be frustrating not having replays and while the jumbotron works it's not the same. Also, in some places it's hard to make out what's going on because of a lack of depth perception

The other issue is cost. As you can't get a ticket in the south stand you're looking at £650 or so minimum, at that price is becomes a question of justification. You can get a second hand car for that money. One of the biggest attractions is the possibility of getting a cup final ticket. I couldn't possibly get a ticket to the carling cup final nor would I pay hundreds of pounds for a ticket that could possibly get confiscated. Another plus is not having to sit on the computer for several hours when tickets for category A games go on sale, or risking forgetting.
 

JimmyG2

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Good luck to you. It will be interesting to see whether you change your attitude once you get into the spirit of the live match occasion when you join the WHL faithful.
Sitting at the computer as your stream freezes, pixilates, changes games at half time and you hover between finding another or sticking with the one youv'e got is a definite argument for being there.
 

whitelightwhiteheat

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I think there's definitely an hierarchy of fans, the same as is the case for most top clubs in my mind at least.

As a long-distance fan I feel 'less of a fan' than those who are from London and/or get to the games regularly, despite the fact that I have 'supported' the club since my father bought me the centenary kit when I was 3 back in 1982. Of course I didn't get into the swing of actually supporting until much later than that. The first game I remember watching was the 1987 FA Cup final. A real disappointment!

Do fans who go regularly see the fans that don't as a lesser fan? I doubt they do, really. It's probably a guilt thing, due to being unable to get to games.

I spend most of my Saturdays watching Merthyr Tydfil playing in the Southern League, does that also make me less of a fan?! I dunno. I watched about 50% of our games last season, maybe less.

Despite all of this, I'd love to have a Spurs season ticket. So good luck to those who have got them, enjoy the games, and lets hope this season turns out to be a success!
 

octavian

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[quote=JimmyG2 But there is a downside to this too in that unlike say Liverpool we are not behind the team come rain or shine.

Scouse behind thier team come rain or shine?Shine,yes.Rain,hardly ever.Bigger myth than the Toon that one.
 

DC_Boy

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Good article jg :)

Naturally, as a loyal fan of fifty years I see myself in the top part of the heirarchy of fandom, if it exists.

I don't go so often these days, but for sure you hear as many stupid comments as you did ten years ago or forty years ago.

Of course one person's stupid comments is another's brilliant insight.

The main reason I go is to support the team, to sing and cheer.

Overall I tend to learn more from games at home than at the ground, but I think it's important to experience both.

However the beauty of boards like this, is you tend to find out who goes and who doesn't, how often etc.

And it's then instructive to read what they say and relate it to their match-going/watching experience.
 

garyhopkins

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Excellent piece JimmyG2.

I love going to the Lane and managed it quite often for ten years whilst working in London. However, I had to juggle the financial considerations (never being that well paid) and always avoided attending games that were live at the pub. Strangely I actually got to enjoy watching the "lesser" teams and often a more subdued atmosphere. Now I am abroad I have no chance of visiting the Lane on a Saturday afternoon but I do get to see every home and away game live on my own TV for the annual cost of 360 pounds. Not bad at all. As such I have really enjoyed watching the games and then reading the opinions on here (particularly the match ratings and the often glaring inconsistencies). Jimmy hits the nail when stating (the obvious?) that some supporters have it in for certain players yet in the same eyes others can never put a foot wrong. At the end of the day you can't beat the atmosphere of the Lane but I have to agree with a lot of Jimmy's sentiments; I also love being able to watch games without the moans and groans of people around me, that "Stand up if you hate Arsenal" business (it can be very distracting if you are trying to follow the game) and people getting up and leaving ten minutes (yes, ten) before the end of the game. Oh, and as an aside the hounding of Ghaly was without doubt the most depressing moment of the season so I'm glad I wasn't there for that. So, sometimes, I actually feel my sanity (and my bank balance) is best preserved on my sofa at 9 or 10pm on a Saturday night. Looking at the more venemous (frequently over the top and quite often completely wrong) tirades on this site is far easier than having to listen to them live at the Lane!
 

JimmyG2

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Some considered responses thankyou.

whitelightwhiteheat touches a nerve here. I spout forth a lot about Spurs and yet rarely go and my tinge of envy probably does have a bit of guilt mixed in.

garyhopkins. I agree with you about the Ghaly incident. I thought he was quite a useful player who gave his teeth for the cause. Harry should have faced down the crowd here and backed his own judgement.
In the context of this article I am sure that this was a 'bit of fun' that got out of hand. Individual responses can often be different when you are in a crowd.

DC Boy Only fifty years? I notice that you don't go to watch the games.

On the whole over the years the Tottenham crowd has been very generous, especially to good footballers and applauding the skill of the opposition is to me one of the most heartening sounds you can hear. Of course its easier to be generous when you are enjoying some success.
 

Wiener

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Good read as always JimmyG2. Have some rep.

However the whole idea that fans who attend a game are in a better position to judge a player's performance is ludicrous. Usually it's an argument put forward by one of the more childish members, unable to argue their case with anything other than sweeping generalisations and put-downs/insults to other members.

Good article. Keep em coming.
 

BringBack_leGin

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Good read and I agree with much of it. I've been fortunate to have missed barely a game since I was a young child, and I've been a season ticket holder since the 97/98 season when we were fighting relegation for the most part. I like to think that I've never thought that my presence there gave me more of a right to an opinion than other's, and I always watch the extended highlights on sky football first so as to be able to fill in gaps that inevitable arise when I'm at the match (eg: what the F*** did Mido do to Carvalho to get sent off?) I'm still relatively young at almost 24 and there's a lot I still have to learn, but I'd be fibbing if I said I didn't value my opinion more highly than most other football fans, but I think that is human nature. The reason one has an opinion is because they believe it to be the correct one. However, I'll never say "I was at the game" to validate my argument, because it just doesn't.

The other thing I agree with is the notion that certain sections of the ground have become stereotypes and fans from those sections afforded less time. For instance, I'm West Stand Upper, and it is admittedly the quiet stand, but I do resent the fact that just because I sit there I'm seen as some passionless numpty on a day out. I sit there surrounded by people who have been season ticket holders since before I was even born, and I'm pretty sure they, and myself, are just as passionate about our club and hurt just as much when things go wrong as the loud mouth who spends the game on his feet shouting abuse at all and sundry.
 

TheChosenOne

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As one of the older members on here I am ashamed to admit that although I am only twenty miles up the road from here the last match I attended was the FA Cup semi final vs Newcastle at Old Trafford in 1999 - more than 10 years ago.

However having watched somewhere in the region of 500 or 600 matches (not sure) I through the decades I feel my ghostly presence under the draughty stands stands me in as a veteran supporter.

I can't afford to go now anyway and the "excitement might be too much for my old ticker. That doesn't mean I don't live and breathe every kick of the ball when I watch or listen to the matches.
 

Son_Of

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interesting article and debate. the fans who will heckle jenas and demand that the useless KP boateng be brought on are a price we have to pay for the live experience. although the lack of replays and close-ups can leave the fan in the ground ignorant on individual events, i believe that you get a much better 'big picture' of players' workrates and positioning, attitude, decisionmaking and movement from being at the match.
i think with current prices and modern mobility of the population and work patterns, there are bound to be many loyal fans who are absent but would love to be at the Lane
 

Son_Of

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regarding a couple of points raised above: liverpool's fans have the most undeserved and exaggerated reputation of any club i have been to.

when harry tried to rehabilitate ghaly, it was unfair of the fans to get on his back without a fair chance. i am also strongly opposed to booing the side at HT, FT etc. but going back to the shirt-throwing match, ghaly had to come off before he lost us the game and he should not have been annoyed with jol, just disgusted at his own performance (which was a million miles from a professional footballer). i didn't like to hear abuse being shouted at him from around me, but he should have recognised the subbing as a necessary action
 
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