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Great post, thank you.My controversial opinion is that it's better when you care more.
I did in my teens and 20s. Every game, every signing, every newspaper link to a play seemed to matter. So many highs and lows, so much excitement every time a game was shown on TV. Getting knocked out of the UEFA Cup by Kaiserslautern in 1999 hurt more than losing the Champions League final, and to be honest I miss it. Not sure if it's the nature of our football in the last 5 years, or just an inevitability of getting older and perspectives changing, or maybe I'm longing to be young again, but I'd love to have those wild emotions that only Spurs could provide.
I think the changing reality of top-flight football has made this more difficult (for me, anyway). There’s a poetic, bittersweet beauty to losing to a better team. When that team is better because they’re funded by an evil empire, or when you lose to a dubious application of technology, it robs the experience of that quality.