We lost to West Ham at Home under Sherwood, and Norwich away under AVB.
I think you are exemplifying my point.
The Norwich defeat was disappointing (Clint Dempsey on penalties!?), but an away tie to any Premier League side is tricky. The only Premier League side we faced prior to the final were Newcastle (Reserves I might add) at home.
The West Ham loss at home was difficult to take as we dominated for the majority of that game.
But that is football, our performance that night was certainly a lot better than our respective performances against them this season yet we somehow took four points off them.
Reaching the final this season wasn't quite the achievement people making out. The draw isn't Poch's fault, and let's hope for the same again next season - but I think you and many others need to put things into perspective.
Also, we have exited the two other cup competitions having received what I think we can all agree were very winnable ties in which we were heavy favourites.