Can understand this to a certain extent.
For me hatred of Chelsea is perfectly rational, for the reasons you mentioned - mostly because they've got so many undeniably racist fans. And for the fans that aren't racist, well, I couldn't support a team that has so many other supporters behaving like that. That goes for Spurs too, if racist chants became the norm at WHL I wouldn't go. End of. I'd probably go watch Fulham.
Arsenal, however is more of an emotional thing. Football is about rivalries, and they're our immediate rivals. I hate them and I expect them to hate us. I don't see anything wrong with that, it's just football banter and it adds to the experience. Obviously, if it's used as an excuse for hooliganism then that is wrong.
Saying that, I do often cringe a bit when the "stand up if you..." chant goes round. For some reason, that seems a bit juvenile to me - I'd rather sing positive songs about our players. I'm always the last to stand up and that's only so I can see what's going on in the match.
Gooner 1enilson, Eboue and Squillaci all shit! so pissed off.
Gooner 2: I'm losin passion? erm I'm in wigan right nw...where the fuck r u? all the fans wa singin at the end of the game...its called true support...u js sit der slatin the team...nt gna giv confidence isit?
Gooner 1: just because I am not there watching the game it don't mean I am any less of a fan! Thats a bogus argument! You got the time to go I DONT. So what if they are all singing but the fans that aint singing are venting their passion in a different way like me, I won't applaud such a shit performance or sing after it fuck that! I expect more!
I hate Arsene Wenger and the way that he can never accept fault with any of his players. I hate the way he tries to dismiss the rivalry with us only to get more wound up against us than in any other game. I hate the fact that he has made the world associate our brand off football with that traditionally defensive long ball no talent side. I hate the patronising comments he makes about us in the build up to any match against them and in his post match interviews. I hate that he coerced our Spurs grown captain and best player into leaving us for them. I hate the fact that every team he produces is filled with diving, cheating, whinging scumbags.
I hate Robert Pires, I hate Thierry Henry, I hate Patrick Vieira, I hate Samir Nasri, I hate Freddie Ljungberg, I hate Ashley Cole, I hate Jens Lehmann. I hate their very personalities. They are ugly, soulless wretches whose very existence I detest. These, and more, are the diving, cheating, whinging scumbags to whom I made reference. Most of all, of course, I hate Sol Campbell. He and Arsenal humiliated us like no club has been humiliated by a player before or since. Our captain, brought up since a teen, made what he was by us and loved by us, and he followed the pound signs to sign for our biggest rivals.
I hate George Graham. I hate him for becoming our manager, filling us with awful, talentless, dour footballers who only knew how to play long ball. I hate that he made me watch Freund, Leonhardson, Perry, Thatcher, and brought in Andy Booth on loan. I hate that he substituted our genius, our most beloved player in every damn match just to show him who was boss, and then forced him out of the club against the wishes of every single fan.
I hate Martin Keown, Lee Dixon, Nigel Winterburn and Tony Adams. I hate the thugs that they were, I hate their neanderthalic approach to football, I hate the fact that they breathed and bled Arsenal. I hate Paul Merson, Charlie Nicholas and Alan Smith. I hate the fact that on Sky Sports Soccer Saturday I put up with their constant, condescending tripe, their complete and utter bias towards Arsenal and against us. I hate that Paul Merson is allowed, on live TV, to openly criticise our fans when he played for the worst fans in football while a Gooner.
That's the worst part, their fans. They have a 60,000 seater shrouded in silence. Before that it was the Library. Beyond that, they are the most ignorant and unintelligent human beings on the planet. They actually believe that football started and finished with their poxy club from a Ghetto in Woolwich, that pre Wenger joining them nobody had ever seen exciting attacking football. Newsflash Gooners, we were knocking the ball about and playing champagne stuff while you were still dragging your knuckles and swinging in the tree. I have never met an Arsenal fan with whom I could have any type of conversation, whether about football, music, politics, love, anything for that matter. They are foul, they are retarded and while it is not intentional, I am delighted and proud to say that I cannot call any Arsenal supporter my friend, nor any of my friends an Arsenal supporter. I hate them the most.
So, while I don't stand up when the chant goes off at Spurs, I do loathe, despise, wrench at the thought of/ smell of them and utterly curse their very being. Do I hate them? Yes, in the purest and most unadulterated form of the word, I hate them.
It is very much more to our club than our rivalry with Arsenal, but our rivalry is also very much a part of our club, and it is not like it is the only chant we ever sing.
I hate them, and I expect everyone else to hate them, from fans to management to players, and I don't mind us reminding everyone of the fact.